Thursday, 25 September 2014

Let's Talk About Love...

Hiya my people! I believe we are all good. Yeah? Cool.
Allow me to wish Momma Reese a happy birthday and many more prosperous years on earth. (Pssst! FUNMI, what did you get for her?)

Today, I want us to talk about love. How do you decide that you are in love with a person? What is it about a person that makes you fall in love with them? Is it looks, character, financial status, height, complexion or their spirit? 

Well, I saw this picture of Dabota Lawson and her fiance at an occasion and I was a bit surprised. Why? Have you taken a good look at this picture? The girl is an ex-beauty queen. Plus she is that much taller than he is. Well, I wasn't surprised when I read that he is a billionaire. 
 
Aha! That explains it right? But does it really? Are we saying that a pretty young girl cannot fall in love with a not so fine looking and shorter  man? I went on to read the comments the picture attracted and i felt ashamed that my thoughts were same as all those people's.

But my major problem with this picture is that she did not insist on using a little out of the billions to get him a nice looking suit. Haba! I am pained jor. Ehen, back to the matter,  I believe a lot of us girls have this perfect picture of how we want our men to look. As a young lady growing up, I had the perfect picture of the man of my dreams. And with time, I found him...(Yes, I found Idris Elba just that he hasn't found me yet.) You see, Idris is perfection to me. What is there not to like? The height? The complexion? The lips? Biko, tell me one thing not to like about Idris Elba.I dare ya!
Idris Elba
You see him abi? I am sure you understand. Now I am wondering how many of us would leave a poor Idris Elba type looking guy for a man who looks like the daddy up in the other picture. And why would you? For love or for the money?

The corper in my office (lets call her Monsura) is quick to say "he is not fine" about guys. In my whole office complex, the girl thinks only one guy is "fine" but she is crazy for Don Jazzy because "he is cool and I like his swag" *I am not saying Don Jazzy isn't fine oh* but what business does a girl who is all for good looks have with loving Don Jazzy biko? 

Monsura swears it is not about his money but because of "the aura around him and I like his effizie" *Yimu* And somehow, none of the close to a hundred men in the office complex has the aura, swag and effizie shey? Yimu for her again jor. Anyway, she ended up saying she believes "every man should have money to take care of his girlfriend". So, would all that aura and swag talk be there if Don Jazzy isn't The Don Jazzy?

Now, I know that those two could truly be in love, but do you think that maybe, just maybe the Billionaire tile may have influence or triggered the love?
Do you agree?
Please, let us discuss. Do you believe that a man's financial status makes it easier for him to get the prettiest girls out there? And would you as a lady choose to be with a man because of his financial status?

PS: Please if you have a way of contacting the Don Dorobucci, let me know so we can get Monsura to meet him and his aura and swag biko.

PPS: Greys Anatomy and Scandal are back!!! RIP to my data bundle coz I am going to start downloading and not care!

PPPS: Hiya DURU! (You know why.)

18 comments:

  1. HEHEHE, I HAVE BEEN WONDERING SINCE I SAW THAT PIC YESTERDAY BECAUSE THE MAN IS KINDA LIKE GRANDFATHER... I DONT THINK MONEY CAN INDUCE GRANPAISH LOVE FROM ME IM SRY I CANT EVEN THE THOUGHT OF IT MAKES ME NAUSEOUS. IT DABOTA'S CROSS TO CARRY HEHEHE NAH SHE KISS AM NOT ME. AND AS FOR THE SUIT THAT ONE HAS K LEG ONE WOULD THINK WITH HER BEING FASHIONABLE SHE COULD HELP HIM WITH HIS WARDROBE ATLEAST THAT WAY WHEN THEY STEPOUT THE LAST THING WE WILL FOCUS ON IS THIS 90"S SUIT. AND VIRA BIKO ME CAREFUL LET US NOT FIGHT ON THIS IDRIS ELBA ISSUE HE IS MINE O I FIT NAKED U ON TOP THIS MATTER BEWARE HEHEHE. AND ANSWERS TO YOUR QUESTIONS YUP A LOT UGLY MEN(SRY TO SAY THAT BUT LET CALL A SPADE A SPADE) HAVE MARRIED PRETTY WOMEN AND THEY ARE STILL MARRYING THEM CASE IN POINT DABOTA AND HER GREATGRAND.. AND AS FOR ME LAI LAI I CANT BE WITH A MAN BECAUSE OF HIS MONEY I GOTTA BE ATTRACTED TO YOUR LOOKS IN ADDITION TO OTHER QUALITIES HAVE U SEEN THAT MASTERCARD ADVERTISEMENT IT GOES LIKE THIS "THERE ARE SOMETHING MONEY CANT BUY, FOR EVERYTHING ELSE THERE IS A MASTERCARD" SHEY U SEE IN THIS CASE MASTERCARD CANT DO IT FOR ME HECK NAW......

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    1. Hey! Back off Idris before I borrow TIBS' bazooka.

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  2. Hiya mami......Mami....when it comes to love, sometimes it requires you to leave it alone......don't go any deeper cuz unless you are one of the parties involved - you would never understand....

    Tibs Tells Tales

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  3. Sincerely when I saw that picture ehn......... I fear........and my sister said something like "who can we say is preparing efo riro"........in as much as money is important in a relationship, it shouldn't be a girl or guy main focus.

    Moment with ZOE


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    1. lol at efo riro. It might just be plain old owo here oh my dear.

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  4. Mehn that picture made people go crazy yesterday, I don't think its any ones business knowing that we can't decipher what the truth cos chances are it may be something real.
    Afolabi Tosyne's blog

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    1. Yea, it did make people go crazy. But like I said, it might be something real going on there.

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  5. Ahhh nawa for that gal oo that means she really loves DonJazzy biko if u av his no or anything help the poor girl out oo lol......

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    1. Aww. Sweet. Thanks Vira.
      Idris Elba*sighs*
      Ehehn! Dis Monsura sef. Smh.

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    2. You people be there oh, we are already planning the wedding sef before we are able to contact him.

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  6. Well, it's so much to tell about love...sometimes, it's true, there are girls interested in a good or better life, but I guess we can fall in love no matter how we look or no matter how he looks. I know nothing about this ppl so I won't comment.
    You...you are great and you have a beautiful and interesting blog, I appreciate your work.

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  7. hmmmmmm,in most cases, ladies are attracted to the wealth, ''in most cases''



    making the world a better place

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  8. Well well well....I really don't have anything to say about love coz am not experienced....but the thought of a #perferctman# still dances in my head...wouldn't go for d money coz it might finish...*God forbid*....but i sure prefer crying in a Lamborghini than on a bike...Lolzz....#me and my big mouth#

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  9. No money, no romance... Oton

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  10. well well well, when it comes to love i cant say am an expect, but one thing i have observed when it comes to choices, men and women seem to pay attention to how the person in question makes them feel, the financial, beauty, intellect, charisma etc part is more or less an added advantage. a tall beauty classy lady can love a short, old and broke man, its possible. but hey we all choose our partners with a certain level of selfishness (smiles) as for Idris Elba girl he is mine, mine, mine (angry face) don't forget to add his British accent as one of his points :)

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